You Get From People What You Expect.

Whenever I talk about the power of catching people doing things right, I hear, "Yeah right.You do not know Harry!" Do you have a "Harry" in your life? If so, perhaps you should take a look at your expectations for that person and see if he or she is not currently living down to them.

It's all in what you notice. When you judge someone, it impairs your ability to see him or her clearly. It is as if a filter is screening out everything about that person except what fits your assessment. Fight through your filter and catch your "Harry"doing something right. This will not be easy, but if you persevere, you will notice that your behavour, even your attitude or degree of acceptance toward "Harry" is changing.

Try it and see what happens. Then try it again. You might even like it. Guaranteed-"Harry" will.